confusions

all this time., im confused with stupid thoughts of mine..

• i want to be friends with everybody but i dont know if they want me to be their friend.. just like casper., i want to have friends everywhere..but i dont know if they like me to be their friend or not..

• the things that are right to us might be wrong for others.. the things that we believe to be true or to be right are wrong for others..just like divorce.., it is not implemented here in the Philippines., for marriage to us Filipinos is sacred and it shouldn't be broken that easy..but in the US., divorce is legal to them..

• you claim that you know that person but actually not.. all a person can see is what does the person shows., the only things that the person wants to show.. we., somehow can read his mind., but not his heart..a person might not show his true self to you.. you believe that his a good person but deep inside his not..

• truths can be lies.. a person can say anything.. there are some persons who are saying lies just to make you happy., rather than saying the truth to make you cry..

so you see., im having doubts about persons.. i don't trust somebody right away.. until i prove that they are worthy of my trust..you may think that im mean.. but it's just that i dont want to be hurt..i have had enough pain..
but i want to change., and as my fave saying or qoute says that "stand for what you belive in., even if it means standing alone".. so i want to trust people..i want to be friends with everybody..i want to believe that they want me to be their friend too..that people are true to themselves., says the truth., show his true self..and that they wouldn't hurt other persons.. i will believe and i will trust you..